Tonight I caught my girls looking quite delightful like this…………
and while snapping that picture, eyes closed and the quietness of our night began………
and my heart had the most peaceful feeling overcome it. These girls will always have each other. These girls will always be sisters, and will always have that life long best friend that every girl needs.
I didn’t expect the love to be alive so early. I prepared myself for jealousy, and resistance – I was blessed with love instead. These little moments shower me with a vision of the most delicious, delectable bond that my girls will have with each other.
My family doesn’t put relationships with each other in the highest importance. It’s so sad to me that in my family most relationships are damaged and treated like trash. I know it’s cruel to say, but it’s real. Even my own relationship with my sister is non existent. Not by my choice, because I love my little sister with every ounce of my soul. She’s my sister, she’s supposed to be my best friend. But unfortunately, she’s at a place right now where she doesn’t want her family. And that’s okay. All that we can do is be here for when she realizes that we’re here unconditionally…. we will all always love her; whether she realizes this in 6 months or 6 years.
With my family, my husbands family and the dysfunction we stem from, I am determined to give my children a solid FAMILY foundation. I don’t want my children to ever turn on each other, became hateful towards one another, and choose to destroy their relationships with each other.
I will never stand for it. PERIOD.
I want to always see my children like this with each other ~
and while I know things won’t always be perfect, I am determined for my children to realize and know in their heart how important they are to one another.